Secrets of dating younger women
Guys mature emotionally at a much slower rate than women and can easily get into their thirties with the emotional intelligence of a five-year-old. Show her that your maturity ensures that a relationship with you is a true emotional partnership, not a one-way street to toy town! You don’t get to your later years without learning a thing or two.
This doesn’t mean that you have to talk at length about quantum physics or sub-Saharan politics.
The fact is, you’ll never quite get it right, and you’ll probably just end up looking like some former 70s disco legend. However, you’ll never compete with a younger man on that score, and to be perfectly honest, that isn’t what she wants from you, anyway.
She’s hoping for the benefit of years of experience and the sensitivity it imparts… [Read: When do age differences matter in relationships?
A conversation should be a two-way street with attempts to solicit information from the other person, and it should involve as much listening as talking–if not more. His levels of empathy and patience have strengthened over time and will prove an invaluable tool in any attempt to woo the object of one’s desires.There may be a temptation for some older guys, with their wealth of experience and knowledge, to see themselves as superior to the girl they are trying to woo.Even if her experiences aren’t as grand as your own, don’t play them down.The older man in a relationship with a younger woman often struggles to correctly identify what it is that has attracted her in the first place.
Consequently, trying to work out what preconception attracted her to you and acting upon your mistaken logic can actually have a negative effect.
Use your sexual sophistication to give her what easily may be her first true orgasm, and have her begging to come back for more. Yes, you’re older, you probably have a better career than any of the younger guys she knows–and consequently, a lot more money.