Most common dating deal breakers
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"My girlfriend is into rape fantasies, fantasy being the keyword," wrote one commenter. we have a safe word for this." RELATED: In one extreme case, a post recalls how they were asked by their ex-girlfriend, who had been abused in early childhood, to engage with role-play in which she was a child and he was an adult molesting her: "It's not that I was judgmental about that, I can understand how that could be healing to re-enact that in a situation where she was actually in control, but it was way outside the boundaries of what I was comfortable with.
I said no and our relationship went to shit immediately after that." Communication about what a person is and isn't into was frequently brought up.